Maxwell photos 5ish months

Preston helping Grandad

Preston loves Maxwell

Brotherly love gets a bit out of hand...

Funny boys

They are not really clones, but they do have matching expressions while watching something obviously quite serious on Playhouse Disney.

Maxwell figured out how to hold his own water bottle which he chewed on during our flight to Wellington. Worked out really well - the chewing cleared his ears, so I didn't have to feed him the whole time to console him! He was a model baby for the entire day - I don't even think he cried at all. And of course being so cute attracted lots of attention which he loves!

Maxwell is 5 months old!

Aside from being a clone, Maxwell is growing fast and learning all sorts of things. He can sit very well now for extended periods, and reaches for toys and loves to inspect them thoroughly. He's getting the idea about crawling - he can nearly get up on his knees, so we'll see what happens over the next month.

He's not really too much of a clone - he's actually a lot rounder in the face than Preston was, but there is a general similarity between them.

We will be starting solids in maybe 3-4 weeks - then he will really be grown up!

Tomorrow Maxwell and I are off to Wellington with my friend Fiona to visit Craft2.0 - can't wait!!!

more clones!

our cloned children: 5months old, Preston 2006 left and Maxwell 2009 right

Blue is for boys

time for a new look :)

Preston and Maxwell are both so clever!

Yesterday Preston went to try out Small Poppies preschool, which is part of the Gifted Education place. We went with an open mind, fully expecting weirdos and pushy parents. Luckily it wasn't really like that at all, and Preston had an extremely fun time with a class room full of fun science activities and edu-games to occupy him. It was actually really interesting, and while quite advanced, was good for Preston. He will be going for a weekly session now.

His mind completely exploded when he saw this - a whole box of his favourite multi-sided dice! He proceeded to put them in a row with all the 3's showing face up, which made all the teachers go 'ahhhh-hhhhaaa'.


Maxwell is a little clever-clogs too! He can sit up now - here is some blurry photographic proof (he's a bit unstable as a beginner). I'm so proud of him - 4½ months and he can sit and roll. AND, he has started doing his baby sign language for 'milk'! What a clever boy!

The baby sign books say not to really bother teaching it til around 10ish months when they have good motor control of their hands, but I've been doing the milk sign to Maxwell pretty much since birth, just for fun. He has been responding excitedly to it for about a month if I do the sign to him, and in the last few days he has started doing it himself when he is hungry! Initially we thought it was just fluke or co-incidence, but it definitely seems more deliberate. For example, last night I asked him if he wanted milk, and he looked at his hand and did his sign.

Maxwell on skype

Preston video

Cute Maxwell pictures - 4 months

Loving the Jolly Jumper

Bubble bath time!

With Great Grandad (about 3½ months)

K-pow!

Hahaha! Naked!

Maxwell and I have been a bit sick the last few days, but we are getting better. He is in very good spirits today, despite having a blocked nose. He absolutely loves jumping in his jolly jumper, and Preston thinks it is hilarious when he sees Maxwell jumping around and not acting like a baby. He smiles and laughs at all sorts of things, but he especially finds anything Preston does to be the funniest thing ever and he chortles and laughs for ages. His hand-eye co-ordination is getting better and he can grab things more easily. And he recognises us - if you ask him "where's Daddy"( or Preston or Mummy) he looks around to find them, as though pointing with his eyes. Clever boy!

Preston's new schedule

Preston has been driving us crazy with his constant need for attention and defiant behaviour. I think this is simply because we can't give him 100% attention all day long - for our sanity and also because we do need to get things done during the day. His behaviour issues seem to stem from boredom (he is far too clever and most things don't hold his attention for more than a minute) and tiredness (we fight a multi-hour sleeping battle every night, only to be rudely awoken very early in the morning).

So, since I can't get anything done at home usually, and my patience has been worn dangerously thin, I'm getting some help. Starting this week, I am having either a nanny or a high school aged babysitter come for a few hours each day to play with Preston! This will give me time to deal with Maxwell plus all the other things I need to do around the house, and hopefully it means I will be able to finish a job rather than being interrupted every 2 minutes! I have a nanny/preschool teacher starting next Friday who will come for the whole day. Preston also likes this idea because it means I'm taking him out of his daycare, which he no longer enjoys (all his friends left, including the good teachers, and now the remaining kids are either mean to him or are generally too young for him to play with properly).

I'm also enrolling him in an accelerate preschool class. For a long time many people (both friends and doctors etc) have told us that Preston could be 'gifted' and we should look at special schools for him. We have been pretty much against this idea as we don't want to label him or push him or whatever and figured we would wait until he is at school to see what additional educational needs he has. However with his boredom-triggered behaviour and persistent need to figure out how the world works, I've looked up the Small Poppies preschool after reading about it yesterday. Out of curiosity, I got their enrolment pack which had a series of questions relating to behaviour, mental and physical development and skills etc to help determine whether the child fits into their category. As I ticked nearly all the boxes on 2 pages of questions, it felt like they must have snuck in and monitored Preston for a while, because it very accurately described him!

So while we have been against the concept of sending him to a gifted school, it seems that it might actually be quite appropriate for him, and let's face it - since I'm having a constant battle with him, if there is a structured program that is designed to help, then it's worth a try. The preschool is only one morning a week, and I'm very curious to see what it is like.

I should mention though that we are extremely proud of Preston and his abilities - he is so amazingly clever and has the most interesting 'true' logic (unspoilt by decades of 'exceptions' to rules). When he is being good, he is such a lovely boy with perfect manners and a very caring nature. We spent the whole weekend pretty much giving him 100% attention and despite not getting anything else done, we had a lovely time with him, and I think there were no time-outs for two whole days!

Maxwell is 4 months old!

Maxwell is very very good - we can't believe how much of an easy baby he is! And he is growing so fast - I've just got a pile of new clothes out of the cupboard to wear and he doesn't fit them! :( He is still determined to roll over, but hasn't quite got it yet. However, he is mastering his hands better now and can reach for things and hold onto things to suck or rattle. I made him a really cool ribbon blanket and he likes to hold and feel all the ribbons. He also smiles and laughs all the time, and especially responds to Preston!

Preston pictures

New Purple and Yellow Bears (taken by Preston)

Snuggled up with blankys and bears!

Preston is becoming a very clever big boy now and spends a lot of time on the computer, playing Nintendo and buying iPhone apps and that sort of thing. We are very proud of his abilities and talents! He loves singing and making up songs and rhyming at the moment which is pretty entertaining. However he has also been testing our patience quite a lot with his defiant behaviour and selective listening issues... grrr. Things have been getting me down lately and reading debate on the upcoming referendum has been making me feel like a terrible mother, and makes me feel quite depressed when I see how many people I know have the complete opposite view to me. At least Dan and I have the same view on parenting, and sometimes (very rarely) we just have to do what it takes to discipline an extremely disobedient child and in those cases, the situation is instantly diffused. There is only so much verbal negotiation that a violently angry 3½ year old will respond to....

Matching boys

Maxwell and Preston have matching shoes :) The tiny Vans were Preston's when he was a baby, and now they are getting worn again. So cute!

Maxwell at One Tree Point

Maxwell, Preston and I went to stay with Grandad and Nana Karon for the weekend. Maxwell is 3½ months old now, and determined to roll over! Maxwell is a bit chubbier than Preston was, but looking through baby pics, they both look very similar. I'll see if I can find some good examples.

Look at my big eyes! Just like Preston's.
(Maxwell above, Preston below, both 3½ months)

We had to replicate this photo! Maxwell above, Preston below.

First time in the sand: "what is this stuff?"

"it's not so bad!"

Preston & Maxwell in the sand

Snoozing after a hard day being cute

Preston at One Tree Point

Swinging at the beach

Preston's footprints and a dog's footprints

Exploring at the beach

Preston, the spider and the cat spew

Our cat had been sick down the back of the couch (yuk) and when I pulled out the couch to clean up the wall and floor, Preston and I had this conversation:

Preston: Oh no, the poor spider is sad!
me: what spider? why is it sad?
Preston: (pointing at an old cobweb) The spider that lives there is all sad because he's trapped!
me: why is he trapped?
Preston: Because the kitty spew is blocking his front door and he can't get out!

??? That's quite an imagination!

Maxwell is 3 months old!

Wow, Maxwell is 3 months old today! He is getting so big, and thinks everything is hilarious. He loves to laugh, and he loves games where we count and lift him up in the air - he seems to understand how it works and anticipates the lifting by getting ready to spring up from my legs, and he even vocalises while we count. He talks so much, and has a wide range of different sounds, it's very cool. I guess he might be like Preston and just keeps on talking and talking...

I haven't updated the blog in a while, so here are a bunch of photos of Maxwell 9-12 weeks old, plus Preston who is about 3½ now!


Preston at the playground - he's such a big boy now and loves playing on all the equipment.

Preston dancing (he loves to dance) while modelling the jersey I knitted him. I'm a mean mummy and have knitted a matching one for Maxwell!!
Here is Preston at Soccer. He has a great time, and it teaches him important things like taking turns and following instructions.

Smiley Maxwell

Maxwell in normal mode. He is so much bigger than Preston at the same age!

Two cute boys

Maxwell 3 months - snoozing while Daddy watches the NBA Playoffs

Two cute boys again

I think this is about 10 weeks - he's beefed up in the last couple of weeks!